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Strides Against Suicide 5K June 10th 2021

Join us for our 7th annual Strides Against Suicide 5K on June 10th at Berg Park, Farmington New Mexico!

Activities 5K, Kids fun mile, local provider booths, speakers, balloon release for our loved ones, silent auctions, music and fun surprises! Proceeds go to Desert View Family Counseling. 

Registration Information Coming Soon!

About this event

We are working to break the stigma around suicide and help the community find their people in the community. We want you to connect with others! We can stop suicide if we come together, check in on one another and get help when we need it!

2021 Event schedule

  • 6:30am- Packet pick-up
  • 7:30am- Speakers
  • 7:45am- Race Line-up
  • 8:00am- 5K Begins!
  • 10:45 am- Award Medals
  • 11:00 Silent Auction/Festival/Music
  • 11:15pm- Balloon Release
  • 11:30pm- Closing Speaker/Thank You
Strides Against Suicide

More information to come soon!

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Parenting Class

Parenting Class is usually the 1st two Saturdays of the month. 9 a.m.- Noon. Evidenced based Court approved-6 hours credit.

For the month of MAY (due to Mother’s day) Class will be 9-2 on May 1, 2021

Call 505-326-7878 Option 1 yo get signed up!

Come learn from our evidenced based curriculum and each other!

Nurtured Heart Approach will change how you parent!

Because this will be a virtual classroom- Class will be split into 2 Saturdays (instead of the usual 6 hour day in person that we had before).

Part 1: First Saturday of the month- class will begin at 9:00 am – and go till Noon.

Part 2: Second Saturday of the month- class will begin at 9:00 am- and will go to noon.

**Participants must be present and have camera on the entire time to participate – otherwise you may be removed from group.


If you do not have ZOOM please click this link. Please give yourself time to get on and get situation so you are ON TIME FOR CLASS.

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Covid-19 Updates -April 20, 2021

To Our Partners and Clients

Hello clients and County Partners, I hope everyone is getting through the constant changes we continue to experience. For a brief moment, I think we were all please with the green/ turquoise rating – however as we know it is rapidly changing again. All we can is to continue to our part and to continue t practice safe and smart habits.

Going forward:

Information to Protect Yourself and Others from COVID-19

What can I do to protect myself from COVID-19?

Just like with many other illnesses, the best way to protect yourself is to wash your hands regularly, to cough or sneeze into your sleeve or a tissue, and when possible, to avoid contact with people who are coughing or sneezing.

Desert View Values:

  1. We are currently limiting our Family Support workers, Wraparound Services and Truancy Court officers the ability to work in the field to mitigate potential exposure and slow the spread of the virus.
  2. Therapy at the clinic, Family Support Services (in home services), Supervised Visitation and Exchange, Truancy visits for Students and youth engagements for Wraparound Clients continue to mostly be done by Telehealth, Zoom, Google Duo and FaceTime. Some in person contact in happening with the proper protection wear (PPW) and appropriate social distancing when deemed necessary.
  3. We are seeing less than 25% of clients face to face which includes social distancing and utilizing face masks at all time. All participants (client or staff) are required to complete a pre health screening and temperature check.

We are truly grateful for your support and partnership during this time. As an essential provider we will continue to earn your trust by utilizing best practices through these uncertain days to come.

Thank you so much for continuing to trust us with the care of you and your family!

Rick Quevedo, CEO

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Substance Abuse & Life Skills Group!

Substance Abuse every Wednesday at 1:30 p.m.

Life Skills/Anger Management every Thursday at 1:30 p.m.


Click this link to “download Zoom” for free (available for desktop and phone).

We have group every week-Call 505-326-7878 Push opt 1 to get and get on the list!

At that time we will get your email so you can receive our weekly zoom link! Evidenced based- and court approved!

Wednesday Class: Substance Abuse at 1:30

Thursday Class: Skills/ Anger Management at 1:30

Be sure to stay on track with your requirements, spite the pandemic.

You must be on time and have your camera on the entire time or risk being removed from the group!

The day before group we will send you a seperate link (via text ) and that is how you will participate.

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You can now see a map view of the various resources to support children, youth and families available throughout New Mexico. The map includes names and locations of different service providers and more detailed information.


What is PullTogether?

As New Mexicans, we are all responsible for making our state a great place to grow up. We may face challenges, but our strong communities and diverse cultures make it possible to give all children the love, support, and guidance they deserve.

Watch the Video

PullTogether is about enlisting parents, families, community members, and young people in the fight to make sure our children are safe, cared for, and ready to succeed.

If we all work together, we can make New Mexico the best place to be a kid.

Support for Parents

“When I feel myself losing patience with my kids, it really helps to take 5 minutes of alone time to calm down.”

“I plan small breaks for myself throughout the day, like listening to relaxing music or taking a walk outside with my baby. It helps keep stress from building up.” 

“I lose my patience more quickly when I’m worried about things other than my kids, like work or friends. Acknowledging that keeps me from taking it out on them.”

For more advice from parents who have been there before, click here.prevnext


Being a parent is hard. But you don’t have to do it all on your own.

Don’t see what you need? Call PullTogether at 800-691-9067, email us at info@pulltogether.org, contact your local community hub, or see what’s happening in our online community forum.

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PullTogther.Org Resource Page

What is PullTogether?

As New Mexicans, we are all responsible for making our state a great place to grow up. We may face challenges, but our strong communities and diverse cultures make it possible to give all children the love, support, and guidance they deserve.

Community Hotlines

If you need immediate assistance or feel that you or your child is in danger, call 911.

NM Child Abuse / Neglect Hotline#SAFE from cell phone
NM Crisis Line1-855-662-7474
1-855-227-5485 (TTY)
Poison Control1-800-222-1222
NM Adult Protective Services1-866-654-3219
NM Help Line (Agora)1-866-HELP-1-NM
Spanish-Language Suicide Hotline1-800-784-2432
Suicide Text Line741741
24/7 Emergency Line575-758-1125
NM Substance Abuse Helpline1-855-505-4505
Agora Crisis Center505-277-3013
National Hopeline Network1-800-SUICIDE
National Domestic Violence Hotline1-800-799-7233
1-800-942-6908 (Español)
1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
National Sexual Assault Hotline1-800-656-HOPE
National Child Abuse Hotline1-800-24-ACHILD
National Child Abuse Prevention Line1-800-CHILDREN
National Teen Dating Abuse Help1-866-331-9474
National Runaway Switchboard1-800-637-0701 Ext. 118
Gambling Addiction1-800-522-4700
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Managing Stress, Anxiety, and Fear Connected to Coronavirus (COVID-19)

While the outbreak of COVID-19 (Novel Coronavirus) has created a great physical health concern, it has also created a large mental health concern as a result of the increased fear and anxiety connected with it.  It is important that along with taking preventative and precautionary steps to protect ourselves from the infection, that we take steps to protect out mental health as well.

We have included information and tips for the following groups:

  • General Population
  • Individuals Receiving Mental Health Services
  • Parents and Caregivers of Children and Caregivers of Elderly Individuals
  • Mental Health Providers and First Responders

General Population:

Anxiety and fear are normal reactions to stress and danger, but during a pandemic the levels can spiral out of control.  It is important to ensure that you monitor these levels and track increasing levels of anxiety and fear. 

  1. Normal stress reactions are to be expected with the increasing worry connected to COVID-19. Some normal stress reactions are the following:
    1. Change in activity levels.
    2. Decreased efficiency and effectiveness.
    3. Difficulty communicating.
    4. Increased sense of humor/gallows humor.
    5. Irritability, outbursts of anger, frequent arguments.
    6. Inability to rest, relax, or let down.
    7. Change in eating habits.
    8. Change in sleep patterns.
    9. Increased focus on cleanliness or infection.

When stress and fear interfere with your ability to do daily tasks and normal reactions become extreme or prolonged, this should be addressed with outside support and professional help.

  • There are several daily items which can serve to reduce anxiety and fear during the COVID-19 Pandemic and the Shelter in Place Order.
    • Washing hands, using hand sanitizer, carrying hand sanitizer with you, and social distancing to reduce worry of infection.
    • Setting up options for working remotely.
    • Setting schedules and prepare for the next 7 days, but being flexible and willing to change plans as needed will help with a sense of normalcy.
    • Reference and research information you read on social media to prevent increased worry.
    • Practice self-care and include items such as: exercise, healthy eating, time with family, connecting with friends virtually, focusing on the positive moments.
  • Avoid increased alcohol or substance use to avoid anxiety and stress or to assist with difficulties sleeping.
  • If the anxiety and fear become overwhelmingly strong and prolonged, you feel hopeless, or have thoughts of self-injury or suicide, seek help immediately by calling the Mental Health Resources, Inc. Crisis Hotline at 1-800-432-2159 or the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
  • Practicing grounding, mindfulness exercises, meditation, and relaxation techniques can be helpful.

Individuals Receiving Mental Health Services

It is important to contact your mental health provider and schedule a time to speak with them as soon as possible. 

  1. Identify coping skills and mindfulness exercises which will assist you with reducing anxiety and managing your stress or fear during difficult times.
    1. Identify a therapeutic plan to ensure that you are able to continue mental health services during the crisis.  (Referral to a different provider, phone or tele-video sessions, health home/care coordination services.)
    1. Request refills of medication to ensure that if there is a service interruption, medication refills are on hand with your pharmacy.
    1. Identify additional support systems.  Connecting with support groups, friends, and family who can provide non-judgmental support can be key in anxiety provoking times.
    1. Mental Health Resources, Inc. will be providing services during all levels of the CODVID-19 crisis via telephone or tele-video for therapeutic and psychiatric appointments, and crisis services through the MHR Crisis Line, 1-800-432-2159.

Parents and Caregivers of Children and Caregivers of Elderly Individuals

Parents and Caregivers will face a special challenge during the COVID-19 pandemic.  It is important to acknowledge that there are two major types of challenges you will likely face; addressing your own feelings, and challenges addressing the crisis with those you care for (elderly, child, mentally disabled)

  1. Gauge the need and level of information to share and how to best discuss the changes and events that are occurring.  Almost all children as young as grade school have heard the term Coronavirus or COVID-19 and have heard individuals talk about the crisis and what is happening in our nation.  Children respond more to how a parent shares information that what is shared and as such making sure that you are prepared, understanding, and confident when discussing the topic with them is key. 
    1. Use words and terms that are age appropriate and share the level of information that they need to hear and providing information that is beyond what is asked for by the children.  Don’t give blind reassurance or dismiss the negative, but avoid oversharing. 
    1. Younger children will be less likely to understand what is going on or why the changes have occurred.  Older children will be more aware how the world works and be more inclined to seek their own information in the absence of information provided by caregivers and parents.  For the elderly and/or mentally disabled, assessment of what level of information will be understood will be a case by case item.
  2. Set boundaries related to access of information that is viewed.  Unfortunately, in the age of 24-hour news and social media there is a lot of wrong information online and this can cause undue anxiety and fear.  Additionally, there is also the need to guard against information overload and constant updates.  Limiting the amount of time spent online and watching news while being more available and discussing what any concerns.
  3. With elderly or mentally handicapped, they may have a difficult time understanding what is explained.  Focus on helping them understand the changes, not focus on the causes, if mental capacity is an issue, but this is a case by case issue to be assessed.
  4. Those in long-term care facilities may feel isolated, especially if they are used to daily visits from loved ones.  Understand that the absence will most likely increase anxiety and feelings of loneliness, so make accommodations that can support the mental health of those individuals. Find ways which you can interact and visit with them by phone or virtually. 
  5. Young children may feel overwhelmed and overly anxious when expected to not attend school, see friends, play sports, etc. Remember to remain calm in interactions and not let the stress of the situation to impact how you react.
  6. Connected to anxiety, watch for signs of depression and/or hopelessness. Make sure children and adults you care for know you are available to talk, and if needed, seek professional help by contacting the MHR Crisis Line, 1-800-432-2159, or an outpatient provider.
  7. Make sure you take time for you.  As the caregiver you can only help reduce anxiety of those you care for by addressing your own anxiety and stress.  (See General Population Section.)

Mental Health Providers and First Responders

As professionals used to high stress jobs and situations we often forget or pretend that we are not impacted by events such as the current COVID-19 pandemic.  Make sure that you assess and address your own stress, anxiety, and fear around events.

  1. Prepare yourself for the impact that dealing with the anxiety and stress of those you encounter as part of your professional role will have on you.  Prepare yourself for what you will see, hear, and experience and have plans for how to share and address these items.
  2. Make self-care a priority, this includes:
    1. Physical health: adequate sleep and rest, health diet and not skipping meals, exercise, and assessment of physical impact for your body.
    1. Mental health: making sure to take time away, maintaining social connections, separating work and home life, peer supports and peer interactions.
  3. Work with coworkers, superiors, and supporting agencies to assist with contingency plans as needed and possible.  Options to consider are items such as working virtually, employing crisis management services, working rotating shifts, and coordination of support to family members as needed.
  4. Remember you are human and to seek professional help if you become overwhelmed by what you experience or vicarious traumatization.  It is crucial that you protect your own mental health and address your own anxiety, fear, and stress.
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Updates on COVID-19, March 30th, 2020

Desert View Family Counseling is actively monitoring the evolving COVID-19 situation and diligently following guidelines provided by the Center for Disease Control, New Mexico Department of Health, and the Children, Youth and Families Department.

We are prioritizing the safety of clients, staff, and community members, in order to support the best public health outcomes.

As of Monday March 23rd, our facilities ( in Farmington and Gallup) will no longer be open to the public. Therapy Services will continue to offered by phone, by ZOOM (which is a free app. for any kind of phone or laptop).

All in home programs, to include Family Support Services Workers, Supervised Visitation & Exchange Monitors, Truancy Court Officers and Wraparound Facilitators will also be limited to phone visits or ZOOM applications as well.

The following precautions are in place at Desert View Family Counseling:

Access to Desert View facilities, (the main clinic on East Main), Family Support Services (on N. Butler), Families First (on Behrend Dr) and our Gallup Family Support Services office, will not be open to the public. Nor will we be providing in-home visits, supervised visits or transportation for any of our field programs.

The acceptance of In-Kind donations is temporarily suspended aside from sealed packages of wipes and diapers (which our need for is critical).

All Staff will assist and support families in addressing the mitigation strategies identified by the CYFD, NM DOH, and the CDC.

These precautions will continually be assessed and adjusted as the situation continues to evolve. We will continue to make changes to programming and provide updates to our community as quickly as possible.

Fore more information on the evolving visit the following pages:





Thank you for helping keep our community healthy and safe!

Best Regards,

Rick Quevedo,

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